In a recent poll, one quarter of divorced couples report that in-laws are “somewhat” responsible for their marriages ending, and the mothers-in-law get most of the blame. Finding a way to get along with your husband’s mother is crucial for the long-term success of your marriage. “People think ‘Once we get married, that will all go away.’ No, it won’t,” Dr. Phil says. If you want to know ahead of time if you’ll have in-law issues, read Dr. Phil’s warning signs:
Mother-in-law is insensitive; doesn’t respect boundaries
Mother-in-law is overly dependent on son for emotional and lifestyle support
Partner clearly puts mother-in-law needs/requests ahead of yours
Partner talks to mother daily; drops everything when she calls
Partner values mother’s advice and opinions over yours
Partner runs to mother when arguments occur
Mother-in-law attacks your character
Mother-in-law treats her son like he’s still a child/competes with you
During family gatherings, you’re overlooked or ignored by mother-in-law
Mother-in-law actively campaigns against your marriage